How to Network

©Paul Johnstone

Top 10 Networking etiquette Tips 

I was asked recently at a networking breakfast by a Refer-On member.

"What is the best way to behave at networking events that is polite yet achieves business goals?" 

After our conversation finished, I though it would be good to share these with you.  

1.    When you are at your network club.  Forget the"what is in it for me?" or the “where’s my referral ”and adopt a "How can I help you?" attitude
2.    Have at least three open questions which will help the conversation flow. (What sort of business are you in? Where do you find most of your customers? What business connections are you looking for? What is special about you product/service?)
3.    You have two ears and one mouth for a reason: listen more, talk less.
4.    Give your networking relationships time to develop, don’t rush with fellow networkers.  Your investment in time will reward you handsomely.  After all we all have a view on the foot in the door salesperson,!
5.    Make sure you're on time and have your networking "Kit" with you: business cards, a pen, decent grooming and a can-do attitude.
6.    NEVER put a business card in your pocket without looking at it
7.    At business clubs, always be willing to include a fellow networker who looks as though they're having trouble getting into a conversation.
8.    Be the one who gives the first referral - you have nothing to lose
9.    Let your fellow networkers know what you need and leave it at that - labouring the point is off- putting
10.    Thank everyone who gives you a referral and FOLLOW IT UP within 24 hours.  However the mark of a great networker, is that you keep the person who gave you the referal,up dated all the way through the process.

 A few  Extras That May Help you.

• Be willing to set up one-to-one meetings outside the usual networking meetings.
• There are two types of networker, Farmers and Hunters:  Be a farmer and work to develop long term relationships, as these will drive business to you year after year.
• Meet. Greet and move on: For open events work on a form of words you're comfortable with that will get you from one conversation to another.   Then practise saying them so that when necessary you can swiftly but politely move on to another conversation.
• Know WHY you are networking: always have a plan and be sure it is a SMART plan.   Have a target speak to 6 people you don’t know – Speak to other members about business every week.
• Less is More.  Be brief and to the point. Your life story may be fascinating, but save it until you're asked! You may have a short time slot, use it wisely with only pertinent words.
• WIIFM- What’s in it for me? People don’t want to know how long you have been in business or where your office is.  What they want to know is what they gain from your product or service, so walk a mile in your customers shoes and your offering will much more appropriate.
• Elevator Pitch:  this is your business proposition that can be given in 30 seconds. It comes from finding yourself in a lift with Bill Gates.  Can you deliver you business proposal between floors in an elevator journey.

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